I had a heated conversation di MSN just now. First we were talking about the guys who made it to the final of American Idol, they are; Adam Lambert and Kris Allen. My friend, a she, thinks that Kris Allen is cute. I disagree because I don't think he is cute but then I said, 'Someone like David Archuleta barutah consider as cute'. Then she said to me, 'Mun kau kekiutan lelaki gay tah ko tu'. I was like 'Whattttt??!!'. Ok, I do think that Archie is cute but does that make a guy who thinks another guy is cute is gay? If you do, you need a wake up call!! Tell me 3 good reasons why if a guy complementing the looks towards another guy is gay? What if a bini2 yang kelawaan bini2? Are they considered as gay also? It is common to hear a girl kelawaan kepada girl yg lain. Why not lelaki kebisaian terhadap the other guy? Nothing is wrong there~ It is a compliment of telling the same sex how good they actually look.
It is entirely true that if bini2 kehensaman lelaki and if di tanya nya arah her guy friend pasal lelaki yg ia kehensaman ani.. of course lelaki atu will say 'Emm.. nda jua' or 'Antah eh, aku lelaki' (padahal dalam hati kebisaian) or ada yg menjawab 'Ok' saja. There are two factors (that I can think of right now) contributing to why dorang (we guys) menjawab like that.
The first one, takut kana ucap gay. Well jarang jua lelaki kan memuji lelaki, iatah mun di puji kaum sejenis, timbul tia tu perkataan gay atu oleh rakan sebaya (specially kaum perempuan). Hayyy... Mun kana ucap, kana ucap laaah.. yang penting it's ur opinion, its ur voice.. no one should take that away from you.. mun takut atu, gay banar2 tah tu ertinya.. Biaktah becakap apa yg di rasa di hati keluar jua ke mulut. Jangan saja rasa di hati tapi keluar mulut lain. Nda salah kalau kan hanya memuji.
Secondly, ego. Taulah sudah lelaki ani kuat egonya.. mun ia kan menjawab soalan bini2 atu tadi.. confirm lah ia cakap 'nda hensem' pasal ia ego and kenapatah kawannya yg bini2 atu tadi lelaki lain tia pulang dipujinya, sedangkan diri ani yg duduk disebalahnya ani, yg lama udah kenal nda pun pernah kana puji2nya. Iatah tu catu rasanya.. Mun udah nda hensem atu, udah lah.. jgnth minta harap kan kana puji.
So, do you still think that if a guy kekiutan or kehensaman another guy di label sebagai gay? Then what if bini2 kelawaan another bini2? For me nda jua salah.. it's a compliment actually bukannya kan fall in love kejiwa deep into the heart. Woooo... Menampaaa.. Mentallllll!! So what do you think? True right?
P/s : The post above is based on the author's opinion. Your opinion is most welcomed.
It is entirely true that if bini2 kehensaman lelaki and if di tanya nya arah her guy friend pasal lelaki yg ia kehensaman ani.. of course lelaki atu will say 'Emm.. nda jua' or 'Antah eh, aku lelaki' (padahal dalam hati kebisaian) or ada yg menjawab 'Ok' saja. There are two factors (that I can think of right now) contributing to why dorang (we guys) menjawab like that.
The first one, takut kana ucap gay. Well jarang jua lelaki kan memuji lelaki, iatah mun di puji kaum sejenis, timbul tia tu perkataan gay atu oleh rakan sebaya (specially kaum perempuan). Hayyy... Mun kana ucap, kana ucap laaah.. yang penting it's ur opinion, its ur voice.. no one should take that away from you.. mun takut atu, gay banar2 tah tu ertinya.. Biaktah becakap apa yg di rasa di hati keluar jua ke mulut. Jangan saja rasa di hati tapi keluar mulut lain. Nda salah kalau kan hanya memuji.
Secondly, ego. Taulah sudah lelaki ani kuat egonya.. mun ia kan menjawab soalan bini2 atu tadi.. confirm lah ia cakap 'nda hensem' pasal ia ego and kenapatah kawannya yg bini2 atu tadi lelaki lain tia pulang dipujinya, sedangkan diri ani yg duduk disebalahnya ani, yg lama udah kenal nda pun pernah kana puji2nya. Iatah tu catu rasanya.. Mun udah nda hensem atu, udah lah.. jgnth minta harap kan kana puji.
So, do you still think that if a guy kekiutan or kehensaman another guy di label sebagai gay? Then what if bini2 kelawaan another bini2? For me nda jua salah.. it's a compliment actually bukannya kan fall in love kejiwa deep into the heart. Woooo... Menampaaa.. Mentallllll!! So what do you think? True right?
P/s : The post above is based on the author's opinion. Your opinion is most welcomed.
QaLiX :D
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